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Detox and Meditation

DeTox and Meditation   

Blood Sugar Solution
On Monday the 4th of August I started my 10 Day DeTox Diet from the Blood Sugar Solution by Dr. Mark Hyman.

I have reached my tenth day and I feel great! You might remember I was a little stumbly mouthed last Wednesday – beginning of day three.

You may ask, “What does detox have to do with meditation?”
Good question. Well part of my meditation practice leads to a heightened sense of awareness about self. I got the intuition hit that it was time to go seek out who will be my ‘regular’ MD and get my never-been-annual physical wellness check-up. (Rachel Abrhams).

Long story short, my labs came back with some high blood sugar results. Dr. Abrhams recommended I read the Blood Sugar Solution to understand more about it.
Well, being my over achiever self, I went ahead and ordered the Detox book as well. She was amazed that I took such pro-active action.

Over the past 9 days I have lost 6.5 pounds and 2 inches. As well as dropping my Body Mass Index (BMI) by 1 point. I was never hungry the entire time. I also walked 38 miles, drank 6 gallons of water and meditated for 12 hours.

I’d like to share some gems from my learning/doing journey:
Sugar is 8 times more addictive than cocaine. Our bodies are hardwired to seek pleasure and reward – it is a survival mechanism that saved us when we were hunter-gatherers. We have a built-in brake on hunger to tell the body when we have had enough food – it is called leptin – a hormone produced by fat cells. Modern society has tampered with that brake line for many of us.

Eat Organically
It is important to eat as much organic fruits, vegetables and meats. No big fish.
High Fructose corn syrup often contains an extra bonus of mercury as a by-product of processing.

Anything that causes inflammation will, in turn, cause insulin resistance, which helps to generate belly fat (the other brain).

Relaxation: How many of us have heard, "You need to relax." Agreed, and proceeded to nod while going about your crazy paced life and diet, swearing to get to it when you have time.
I've learned that stress increases your levels of insulin, cytokines (messenger molecules of the immune system that trigger inflammation) and cortisol (a trigger that helps create belly fat).
Stress also increases your appetite and your carb and sugar cravings, provoking the metabolic dysfunction that leads to weight gain. So if you want to lose weight, start by soothing your stressed out body and mind.

For many people the sympathetic nervous system - fight or flight - is stuck in the "on" position. If you want to heal your brain, metabolism, and chromosomes, you need to learn how to hit the pause button and activate the parasympathetic system which governs the rest and relax response. The sense of calm you feel when you can let down your guard, breathe calmly and just be.

Breathe Deeply
Deep breathing is wonderful for relaxation. When you take a deep breath you stimulate a vagus nerve which calms your mind. The vagus nerve runs from your brain through your chest cavity through all your organs, like an octopus stretching out its tentacles to every cell in the body.
Stimulating the vagus nerve signals the production of hormones that calm your nervous system, reduce cortisol, help metabolize your food, boost brain function, and naturally regulates your appetite and fat burning.

Meditation not only stimulates the vagus nerve and activates the relaxation response - it has been scientifically proven to make our brains bigger and better. Stress shortens our telomeres (the little caps at the ends of the chromosomes) and this directly impacts our longevity. Meditation reverses that. Please, I urge you, to cultivate at least a five minute a day meditation practice for yourself.

Get enough sleep! Good tips for better sleep: Go to bed and wake up at the same time to create a regular rhythm of sleep.
Use your bed for sleep and romance only. And make your bed every morning.
Have a clutter-free bedroom.

Get at least 20 minutes of sunlight a day, preferably in the morning. The sunlight enters your eyes and triggers your brain to release specific chemicals, such as melatonin that are vital to healthy sleep cycles and balanced moods, and help prevent premature aging.

Do not eat within three hours of bedtime.
Avoid bright stimulating screens before bed. They alter your brain's natural sleep chemicals. Best to sleep in a dark room.

Take an hour (minimum of 20 minutes) of lovely wind-down time.
Write down your worries or the next day’s to-do list. This frees your mind and helps you get into a deep state of relaxation.
Get a massage or stretch before bed to relax the body. Or learn a few yoga poses like lying on the floor and putting your legs up against the wall. This passive stretching can help calm your body, quiet your mind, and reset your nervous system.

Warm your middle.
Avoid medications that interfere with sleep. These include sedatives which disrupt sleep rhythms, antihistamines, stimulants, cold medications, steroids, and headache medications that contain caffeine.

Use herbal therapies such as 300 to 600 milligrams of passionflower or 320-480 milligrams of valerian root extract one hour before bed.
Meditate before bed.
I hope my insights/learning's during my detox have been helpful to you.

I have to say, I was a bit concerned that I had lost my “Wonder Woman Mojo” about day three. I don’t think it really came back until day eight or nine. I feel so good now that I will continue following some of the new strategies I acquired during my detox.


Bon Appetit!
  

Please join me Monday mornings and Wednesday nights. See calendar page for the dates. Meditation From The Heart

Six Healing Sounds

Six Healing Sounds

During my last Monday Meditation Class I had a student who inspired my heart to revisit a Taoist practice I have learned along the path of my meditation life. This practice is called the Six Healing Sounds. Part of the Sum Faht practice stems from Taoism. Though this teaching is not specifically from my teacher is is in alignment with the flow of energy within the body.

My research led me to working with this version created by Mantak Chia via Universal Tao Publications. I was tempted to break the information up between two blog segments, but have decided against it knowing that people who really want this information will want it all at once.

The Theory behind the Six Healing Sounds: Healthy Body 


Having assessed the knowledge of the universe through internal practices, the Taoist masters discovered that each healthy organ is associated with a particular sound, color and quality of energy. Emotional problems, pollution, poor food, injuries, and overly strenuous exercise can overheat the internal organs causing them to weaken.
This changes the state of each organ’s sound frequency, color and energetic quality. The Six Healing Sounds practice helps to restore, balance and cleanse the vital organs by correcting these factors. They also stimulate the chi flow throughout the body to enhance one’s overall health and vitality.

The Cosmic Six Healing Sounds helps to release any excess heat that may be trapped in the cooling sacs which surround each organ. As you assume the postures and produce the sounds sub-vocally, their vibrations redistribute any excess heat into cooler regions of the body where it can safely be stored or used. Once organ energies are balanced, you have a good foundation for establishing and nurturing the virtue energies. This will help to maintain the Chi balance throughout the system.

What causes an organ to malfunction? There are many causes. Urban society creates a life full of physical and emotional stresses such as overcrowding, pollution, radiation, junk food, chemical additives, anxiety, loneliness, bad posture, addictions and sudden or over vigorous exercise. Separately and together these stresses produce tension and start to block the free passage of energy flow in the body. In addition, the cities that we live in often lack the safety valves provided by nature: trees, open spaces, and running water, which give forth a cooling, purifying energy. Continued overheating causes an organ to contract and harden. This impairs its ability to function and results in illness. One of the surgeons working with the Universal Tao Center in New York reports that the hearts of patients who have died of heart attacks look as if they’ve been cooked! And the ancient Taoists have a saying, “Stress cooks your brain”.

Chinese medicine teaches that each organ is surrounded by a sac or membrane, called fascia, which regulates its temperature. Ideally, the membrane releases excess heat out through the skin, where it is exchanged for cool life force energy from nature. An overload of physical or emotional tension causes the fascia to stick to the organ so that it cannot properly release heat nor absorb cool energy from the skin.

The skin becomes clogged with toxins and the organ overheats. The Six Healing Sounds speed up the heat exchange through the digestive system and the mouth. The digestive system is more than 20 feet long and runs from the mouth to the anus as one pipe in the middle of the body. It helps release excess heat from the fascia, cooling and cleansing the organs and skin. When all these sounds and postures are done in the proper order, body heat is evenly distributed by the intestinal tract throughout the whole body, and each of the organs is at the correct operating temperature.


Daily practice of the Six Healing Sounds will restore and maintain calmness and good health. Greater sexual pleasure and improved digestion will occur. Minor ailments such as colds, flu and sore throats can be prevented or thrown off easily. NOTE: Typical side effects of these practices are yawning, burping or passing wind. All of which are beneficial indicators of moving energy. Once learned, the entire set takes only 10 -15 minutes - you are worth it.

 
Lungs
 First Healing Sound: Lung Sound 

 1. Sit with your back straight, your hands resting on your lungs, and your  eyes closed. 
 Smile down to your lungs. Be aware of the quality of the energy in your  lungs.
 Picture a white light, fresh and pure like the energy of the mountains. Imagine a metal sound like a bell.
2. Take a deep breath. Close the jaws so that the teeth gently meet and part the lips slightly as you slowly exhale through your teeth making the sound “Ssssssss”. At first you can produce the lung sound out loud, but eventually you should practice it subvocally. (Subvocally means that you are vocalizing so softly that only you can hear the sound and feel the vibration inside the lungs.) (Keep the subvocal instruction in mind for the following five more sounds.)
Feel that the sound starts to move the chi in the lungs. Know that any excess heat and toxins are expelled from the lungs as the sacs (layers of tissue called fascia that surround every organ) surrounding the lungs are compressed.
3. Nurture good emotions. This is the most important part of this practice. Take as much time as you need to get in touch with the organs. As the excess heat lessens and the white - metal energy expands in the lungs then positive emotional qualities will have room to grow. Concentrate on the feelings of righteousness and courage as you transform any sadness or grief. Sit up straight and tall so you can feel courage. Try to maintain the feeling of the Lung Sound for increasingly longer periods after each practice and throughout your daily life.
4. Repeat the Lung Sound three to six times. For sadness, depression, colds, flu, toothaches, asthma, emphysema or depression you may repeat this exercise 6, 9, 12 or 24 times.

Second  Healing Sound: Kidney Sound 
Kidneys

1. Sit with your back straight, your hands resting on your kidneys, and your eyes closed.
Smile down to your kidneys. Be aware of the quality of the energy in your kidneys.
Picture a blue light, like the sun shining on the deep blue sea.
2. Take a deep breath. Open the eyes and put your legs together, ankles and knees touching. Lean forward and clasp the fingers of both hands together around your knees. Pull your arms straight from the lower back while bending the torso forward (this allows your back to protrude in the area of the kidneys). Tilt your head up as you look straight ahead. Round the lips and slightly exhale with the sound “Chooooooo” as if you are blowing out a candle. Contract your abdomen on the exhale, pulling it toward your kidneys.
Feel the sound start to move the chi in the kidneys. Know that any excess heat and toxins are expelled from the kidneys as the sacs surrounding the kidneys are compressed.
3. Nurture good emotions. Sitting upright with palms over the kidneys radiate blue light, gentleness, stillness and alertness into the kidneys. Rest, close your eyes, listen to your kidneys. Smile to them and imagine that you are still making the Kidney Sound. Breathe normally and feel your fears dissipate as you transform them. Feel the gentleness also relaxing your lower back. Try to maintain the feeling of the Kidney Sound for increasingly longer periods after each practice and in your daily life.
4. Repeat the Kidney Sound three to six times. You may repeat this exercise 6, 9, 12, or 24 times to help alleviate fear, fatigue, dizziness, ringing in the ears or back pain.

Liver
Third Healing Sound: Liver Sound

1. Sit comfortably with your back straight, your hands resting on your liver, and your eyes closed.
Smile down to your liver. Be aware of the quality of the energy in your liver.
Picture a forest. Imagine the sun shining on the forest creating life force and green light.
2. Take a deep breath. Open the eyes and extend your arms out to the side, palms up. Continue raising the arms overhead, intertwine the fingers and rotate for palms up. Bend slightly to the left, exerting a gentle pull on the liver. Open your eyes wider because they are the openings of the liver. Slowly exhale with the sound “Shhhhhhh”.
Feel that the sound starts to move the chi in the liver. Know that any excess heat and toxins are expelled from the liver as the sacs surrounding the liver are compressed.
3. Nurture good emotions. Sit upright with palms over the liver and think to radiate green light, the forest energy and kindness into the liver. Rest, close your eyes, be aware of your liver. Smile at your organ and imagine that you are still making the Liver Sound. Breathe normally and ‘see’ your liver glowing with green rejuvenating light. Concentrate on the virtue of kindness and forgiveness. This will lessen anger, aggression and frustration energy. Try to maintain the feeling of the Liver Sound for increasingly longer periods after each practice and in your daily life.
4. Repeat the Liver Sound three to six times. You may repeat this exercise 6, 9, 12, or 24 times to help expel anger, clear red or watery eyes, remove a sour or bitter taste and to detoxify the liver.

Fourth Healing Sound: Heart Sound 
Heart

1. Sit comfortably with your back straight, your hands resting on your heart, and your eyes closed. Smile down to your heart. Be aware of the quality of the energy in your heart.
Picture a red ball as a sun setting.
2. Take a deep breath. Open the eyes and take the same position as for the liver sound. This time, however, you will lean slightly to the right to pull gently against the heart. With the tongue lightly touching the lower teeth open a rounded mouth and slowly exhale with the sound “Hawwwwww”. Feel the sound start to move the chi in the heart. Know that any excess heat and toxins are expelled from the heart as the sacs surrounding the heart are compressed.
3. Nurture good emotions. Sit upright with palms over the heart and think to radiate red light, love and inner joy into the heart. Rest, close your eyes, be aware of your heart. Smile at your organ and imagine that you are still making the Heart Sound. Breathe normally and ‘see’ your heart glowing with red fiery light. Concentrate on the virtue of compassion. Strengthening the heart for more love, inner joy, honor, respect and sincerity. This will lessen hastiness, arrogance and hatred in the heart; cooling any jealousy. Try to maintain the feeling of the Heart Sound for increasingly longer periods after each practice and into your daily life.
4. Repeat the Heart Sound three to six times. You may repeat this exercise 6, 9, 12, or 24 times to help relieve sore throats, cold sores, swollen gums or tongue, jumpiness, moodiness and heart disease.

Spleen
 Fifth Healing Sound: Spleen Sound

1. Sit comfortably with your back straight, your hands resting on your spleen, and your eyes closed. Smile down to your stomach and spleen. Be aware of the quality of the energy in your stomach and spleen. Picture the yellow of a beautiful field of sunflowers.
2. Take a deep breath. Open the eyes, move the arms to the front and place the first three fingers of both hands just beneath the sternum on the left side of the rib cage. Gently push your spleen to the back as you exhale a “Whooooooo” sound. This is more guttural or ‘throaty’ than the kidney sound. Know that any excess heat and toxins are expelled from the organs as the sacs surrounding them are compressed.
3. Nurture good emotions. Sitting upright with palms over the spleen and think to radiate yellow light, fairness, openness and stability into the spleen. Rest, close your eyes, be aware of your stomach and spleen. Smile to them and imagine that you are still making the Spleen Sound. Feel  the vibration of the sound moving and cleaning the energy in the stomach and the spleen. Breathe normally and ‘see’ your organs glowing with warm yellow light. Worries are lessened. Feel the fairness, openness, balance and harmony growing in the stomach and spleen; transforming any worry in them. Try to maintain the feeling of the Spleen Sound for increasingly longer periods after each practice and in your daily life.
4. Repeat the Spleen Sound three to six times. You may repeat this exercise 6, 9, 12, or 24 times to help eliminate indigestion, nausea and diarrhea.

Sixth Healing Sound: Triple Warmer Sound 
Triple Warmer

The Triple Warmer refers to the three energy centers of the body: The upper section (brain, heart and lungs) is hot; the mid section (liver, kidneys, stomach, pancreas and spleen) is warm; and the lower section (large/small intestines, bladder and sexual organs) is cool.
The sound “Heeeeeee” serves to balance the temperature of the three levels - bringing hot energy down to the lower center and cool energy up to the higher center.
1. Either lie on your back or sit in a chair. Smile. Inhale. Bring palms over face and exhale with a “Heeeeeee” sound.
2. Inhale fully into all three energy centers: Chest, Solar Plexus and Lower Abdomen. Exhale fully with the “Heeeeeee” sound. Imagine a roller pressing out your breath in all three areas. You can use your hands to help move your chi from above your head to your lower Tan Tien.
3. Rest. Focus on the entire digestive tract.
4. Repeat the Triple Warmer Sound three to six times. You may repeat this exercise 6, 9, 12, or 24 times to help relieve insomnia and stress. Note: The Triple Warmer can be done lying down in bed to facilitate falling asleep.

Benefits of Meditation - Personal Experience

It is hard to describe Sum Faht Meditation in exact detail because it taps into what is needed in the moment and produces different results every time for every individual. Overall the results are for the good and for the betterment of the person. Any meditation practice helps one to pause, look inside and listen. Answers are always there.
Meditation from the Heart


In my style of Meditation I teach with a variety of tools to help people handle their life in an easier, lighter, more fun or pleasant way. A good meditation practice has many ‘aha’ moments. These come with delights from the new understandings. There is not a “One step to Heaven” enlightenment in Sum Faht practice, but a beautiful journey with many benefits along the way.


What are the benefits of meditation? Like my son likes to say, “You gotta do it to know it.” There is an inexplicable, feel-able connection to yourself and to your higher self to know what you want or don’t want in life. It is nice to take the time to sit quietly especially when you do it with personal reverence. Meditation builds compassion for yourself and others. It also builds a strong connection with Nature - seeing the beauty of the divine in all things great and small.


Yes, there are the recurring basics within the Sum Faht Meditation Practice. For example: Sitting Meditation, Standing Meditation, Walking Meditation, Guided Movements (moving meditation), Learnings of Healing, and Mudra Meditations (which are hand positions.) We also work with intuition and with Nature.


Recently I heard the sublime song by Bobby McFerrin called Discipline. It reminds me a bit about peoples struggle to do the things that are ultimately good for them.
“No discipline seems pleasant
at the time but painful.
Later on, however, it produces
A harvest of righteousness and peace
For those who have been trained by it.
No discipline seems pleasant
at the time but painful.”


I find that through discipline comes freedom.


At the very beginning of my Sum Faht Path I found the strength to rid myself of a very toxic relationship and find a new one with Henry. It helped the both of us to remain sane and vital as our new journey together brought us through most all of the major stressors in life at once: New relationship, marriage, moving from west coast to east coast, new job for Henry and total career change from Interior Designer to mother of three for me, bankruptcy and moving back to the west coast (all in one year.)


I was always proactive with my children’s health. If they felt something coming on I would ‘work on them’ and poof 99% of the time they were better. By teaching the kids meditation they had an early sense of their spiritual essence and were driven to explore and question the many belief systems out there. Often I caught them in their teenage years explaining meditation to their friends. They all three told me later how meditation helped them get through the trials of their teens.


My meditation practice has transformed my life over and over again. It has helped me go from a person with a complete lack of confidence to feeling courageous and sound in almost all life circumstances.


I have moved from being invisible to visible. Yet I can still be a ‘ninja’ if stealth is needed. I share a deep connection with people from all over the US and other countries. I truly like myself and have faith and the power to change what is no longer working for me. I feel safe. I can go with the flow.


My meditation practice gives me structure and personal strength to my days. There is a noticeable difference between the days I meditate first and the ones where I just run out the door.


I encourage you to join me in my Sum Faht meditation classes (see calendar) or to dust off your own practice. “You gotta do it to know it.” Meditation is good.

Life's Seven Challenges

The seven challenges to being a good human being are: Humility, Patience, Acceptance of Fate, Surrender, Simplicity, Detachment and Harmony with Nature.

The theme underlying all of the challenges is the basic struggle to be a well-balanced, good-hearted person. There is a story about two monks who are walking along when one asks the other about his goals in life. The one monk replies, "I'd like to be a saint. Why? What are your goals?" The other monk says, "I just want to be a good human being." The first monk responds, "You are very ambitious."

Humility: Whatever qualities or attributes we possess were given to us. They were not our doing. We didn't create our intelligence, competence with languages, artistic skills, or ability to deal well with people. These are, quite literally, gifts. As we develop spiritually, we increase our ability to help or heal others. We can become better vehicles for healing or helping, but we are not the originators of that energy. Part of the purpose of spiritual development is to help others, but that is not a way or an excuse for making ourselves more important or powerful.

Patience: Spiritual development takes a very long time and is a slow and painstaking process. It is work that does not end. There is no 'getting there.' There is only more insight, and the reward is more work.  Impatience merely hampers our progress. It is as inappropriate as standing in your garden screaming at a seedling to grow faster, to hurry up and bloom.
Blooms once a year

Acceptance of Fate: We can't control reality. But we can control the way we deal with whatever happens. We can feel defeated by a particular event and wail at the heavens, or we can choose to view the event as a challenge, a test of our ability to maintain faith no matter what the circumstance. But an understanding that some things are beyond our control is a wisdom and can simply be accepted as gracefully as possible.

Surrender: We want to naturally live on faith that our struggles have some meaning, that our efforts are not in vain. We must surrender have faith in the forces that impel our lives.
It is an excellent time to surrender in meditation. In particular, we must surrender the ego. We need to bypass the intellect and the ego so that higher spiritual forces can communicate with our Inner Selves. Having a fundamental faith in the power and benevolence of those forces are good to cultivate so that we can truly let go and surrender ourselves to their care.

Simplicity: One of the greatest compliments the Teacher pays a person is to say that he or she is 'simple'; meaning open, direct, or uncomplicated. In our culture we tend to respect complexity, and we use our minds to make things 'more interesting', that is, more complex. But in meditation the intellect and complexity frankly has no place. The Teacher said once that it is very difficult for a complicated person to become simple. It is much easier, however, for a simple person to become complicated. One just needs to learn to constantly ask, "Why?" 

Impartial Observer
Detachment: When we learn to accept fate and surrender our egos and intellects we learn to have more detachment in our everyday lives. This does not mean that we don't care about things, people, or our responsibilities. We still experience strong emotions and can be deeply involved in many areas. But we learn to maintain a certain perspective, to see things in context rather than merely from the narrow viewpoint of our own egos. When someone infuriates us, we still feel the rage. In addition, however, we learn to have the discipline to also view the situation impersonally, as if we were an impartial observer.
It is good to learn detachment from our past patterns of behavior. Many of us define ourselves as victims for whom everything seems to go wrong, or as scapegoats who are always hated and picked on, or as underachievers/overachievers. We may learn to not define or limit ourselves in terms of stereotypes or anything else. And we may learn to detach ourselves from our own destructive habits.

Harmony with Nature: The final challenge is to consistently harmonize and flow with what is natural: Both the natural flow of the Universe and the flow of our own Inner natures. In meditation we learn to 'go with the flow' and to blend with different energies. In day-to-day life we strive to live in harmony with nature, not upsetting the natural balance of our world. 

Summary: It is good to consistently try to master the Seven Challenges, and integrate these values into our everyday lives. True spiritual development is measured by the goodness of our hearts and actions, not in our accomplishments and fame in the mundane world. Nor in our ability to meditate well. This, however, does not minimize the immense value of meditation.

Reflections of a Meditation Retreat

A couple weeks ago I had the good fortune to attend a week-long meditation retreat at Buckhorn Springs (Ashland, OR) with my meditation teacher of 27 years.

Out of the 26 folks who attended 9 states and two countries were represented.

A retreat is a perfect way to remove ourselves from our daily grind and connect more deeply with our spiritual nature. The end results are being well rested, revitalized and chock full of new insights and vigor. Often the wholeness human beings are searching for can be fulfilled from within. Especially if one takes time to retreat from daily routines and stresses.

Getting ready for another round of meditation
Sometimes I like to look at the statistics of a thing. We started with an evening meditation on a Friday and ended with a morning meditation the following Friday. In between we enjoyed 47 hours of meditation, learning, laughter and exercise. As well as 25 yummy meals that were lovingly prepared for us.  We also had an after party which included a silent auction where we raised $1600 for our scholarship program. During our free time there was several acres of beautiful land to explore, more meditation to be had, helping others with healing, sharing life experiences and the exploring of the beautiful town of Ashland.

I am always stuck by how magnificent the night sky is when we are removed from the city lights. The milky way is rich with stars. I am so lucky to experience such breath-taking beauty. It was quite fun to name all the constellations we remembered from our schooling.

A typical day would start with an hour of meditation from 7-8am. We rise from our sleepy state and walk in silence to the meditation hall and quietly sit and meditate. Breakfast is served. As you can imagine, sitting for long periods can be tiring. So to help us with that we had a daily exercise period from 9-10am. During which we'd stretch, do chi kung, tai chi and other breathing/moving exercises. From 10-Noon we'd have a session with the Teacher. Lunch is served. Free time til the 2:00-3:30 session with Leong - often outside - learning more about nature. Free time til dinner was served. 7-9pm evening session with the Teacher. Sleep and repeat.

I have to say that this retreat was golden with laughter. And there was so much harmony and great connections between all the participants. Lovely!

The main thing that is up for me at this time is Patience. Patience with family and with my meditation business.

Patience is one of the seven challenges to being a good human being. Spiritual growth is a natural process and it cannot be rushed.

Time is our gift. We have time.







Headache Relief

Meditation from the Heart's Quick Tip for Relief from a Headache

Does your head ever feel like this?

Many years ago I learned this easy and effective way to help others to get rid of their headache. It is a technique from Polarity Therapy. A person does not need years of meditation cultivation; it simply works every time. Even a child can do it.

Human beings are chock full of positive and negative electrons. At times they seem to gather in an over abundance in one's head - causing a headache.

For ease of description, Person A - is the one with the headache. Person B - is the one who is helping to lessen the headache via this polarity technique. 


Polarize a Headache

Have person A sit comfortably in a chair. Remove any hat or glasses.
Person B (standing) rubs their palms together briskly for a few seconds. Approach the left side of person A. Ask them to close their eyes and breathe deeply. Their breaths should be audible.
Person B places their right palm lightly against the base of 'A's' neck and the left palm about an inch away from 'A's' forehead.
Hold this position for a minute or two while person A is taking deep breaths. 

When done person B should flick their fingers a few times and or run their hands under cool water.

This simple technique helps to re-align the positive and negative electrons and moves the painful stagnant energy out of the head.

Last Two of the Six Common Meditation Mistakes

Previously, we have looked at four of  the six most common meditation mistakes. (#1: I'm trying to quiet my mind. #2: I'm just trying to feel peaceful and open during my meditations. #3: "I've been doing the same practice for months or years." #4: "I'm trying to reach enlightenment or a permanent state of bliss.")

 If you have tried meditation and have become frustrated either with maintaining your practice or with a lack of results, do not feel alone. At times, even the most ardent practitioner can be derailed by these snafus.  

Many faults are rooted in typical, fundamental, misunderstandings about what the purpose of meditation is. These can derail any human being despite the best of intentions. The good news is, the meditations taught by Meditation from the Heart and the way they are presented, side-step the common errors entirely, giving you a far more reliable and enduring experience.

As we reveal more common meditation mistakes see if you recognize your own meditation ‘block(s)’.

Meditation Mistake #5: "I use my meditation as an escape from the challenges of life." Some
I'm sure it will be better over there
people may use meditation as a refuge or 'spiritual bypass'. Escaping into meditation to avoid facing or dealing with uncomfortable feelings or issues. This approach does not lead to good results. Rather such avoidance could lead to less, not more, ease and ability to deal with life issues.


Meditation is more about being fully present with everything that is - including discomfort and challenges. If there were no tough challenges in life then our life would become boring. And we would naturally create a situation that provides difficulties for our-self just to shake things up a bit.

Your meditation practice can empower and strengthen you to face truth and reality without hiding. Most of us are human beings who live and work in the world and have not chosen the monastic lifestyle. Please don't use that as an excuse to wait to have a meditation practice until 'the time is right.'

Also, ask yourself, "When or where are you happy?" Is it on vacation? Do you lose that happiness when you come back home and to work? Then treat your work as though you are on vacation. Be happy at work.

Meditation Mistake #6: "I hop from one spiritual teacher to the next trying to find the one who will make me feel the best and fulfill my desires." "Danger Will Robinson!" No one can make you feel anything or fulfill your desires. Only you can do these things for yourself. It is easy to show powerful and wonderful mystical experiences. It is much harder to work at a gentle pace to build a strong foundation which builds a harmonious and contented life. 
Don't be a cyber-bot


Please, do not give your power away to anyone. You and the innate spirit that resides within are perfectly capable of leading you to live a fulfilled life. Let your teachers gently remind and nudge you in the direction that is right for you.

More than anything, realize that we live in an age of fast information, where we can look up something that is puzzling us, read about it and decide if it is helpful or not. The key here is one, not to forget to take the time away from technology to just be with yourself. And two, to remember to move at the pace of a human being - not a cyber-bot.

Two More of the Six Common Meditation Mistakes



Previously, we have looked at two of  the six most common meditation mistakes. (#1: I'm trying to quiet my mind. #2: I'm just trying to feel peaceful and open during my meditations.) If you have tried meditation and have become frustrated either with maintaining your practice or with a lack of results, do not feel alone. At times, even the most ardent practitioner can be derailed by these snafus.  

Many faults are rooted in typical, fundamental, misunderstandings about what the purpose of meditation is. These can derail any human being despite the best of intentions. The good news is, the meditations taught by Meditation from the Heart and the way they are presented, side-step the common errors entirely, giving you a far more reliable and enduring experience.

As we reveal more common meditation mistakes see if you recognize your own meditation ‘block(s)’.

Personal Plateau
Meditation Mistake #3 - "I've been doing the same practice for months or years." First, let's remember that there is no wrong way to meditate. Experienced meditators can hit plateaus. Rote repetition of a single approach can drive you into a 'meditation rut', where your practice has lost some vitality and dynamics you have experienced before. 

If you have been meditating for years (or seems like ages) but aren't sure why you are doing it any more, Can't think of any benefits you are deriving, dread the practice or simply treat it like a habit you are forcing yourself to maintain, then this is probably your issue.

Just like an exercise program you have for your body can get stale - you need to shake it up every once and a while. Introduce some new challenges to stretch yourself. For example go to a group meditation practice, sign yourself up for a retreat or schedule yourself for an all day meditation at your own home or favorite place (not recommended for beginners).

Meditation from the Heart teaches a variety of approaches that inspires you to use your awareness in different ways. Effectively giving you tools that will 'cross-train' your body, mind and spirit. Thus lowering your chances of getting stuck in a rut. Rather, helping your meditation practice to become an ongoing journey of deepening awareness and curiosity. 

Enlightenment
Meditation Mistake #4 - "I'm trying to reach enlightenment or a permanent state of bliss." Don't worry, there are many mini enlightenment's along the way, however, you will still be learning until the day you die. Achieving a specific dramatic state of being or having flashy 'spiritual fireworks' is not the point of meditative cultivation.

If one tries to hold on to or continually go back to an incredible or 'favorite' experience you've had then not only are you actively engaging your mind, but you are also, in essence, holding on to the past and effectively closing yourself off to potentially more magnificent and uplifting experiences.

All states of being have a natural ebb and flow. Let your meditation practice lead you to a great many experiences with balance and liberation from the past.